So today I turned 16! Yay!!
-Insert Confetti
& balloons everywhere-
As I was thinking last night about how "16" is the age that my parents said I could start dating, etc.
I thought about how much I have dreamt & planned in my mind for this "unrealistically perfect" day to happen & how everything would be just as I ever dreamt...
A charming, hand-some "prince" in suit & tie,
(who would now be my boy-friend & one day husband!!)
Would arrive at my door at exactly half-past eight with 16 red roses in hand, he then would ask me out on a special birthday date! (With my parents permission of course!)
I magically would be ready to go in just a few minutes!
I would be wearing a puffy, sparkly dress, high-heels & my hair would be done just so :)
We would go out for a delicious, fancy dinner & then we would take a chilly midnight stroll through a local vine-yard hand in hand...where we would ring in the new year together under the stars <3
We then would fall in love
& the rest would be history! :)
I know its pretty unrealistic but,
I'm still hoping it happens one day!!
Aww! Makes me smile just thinking about it :)
Well anyways...No princes or red roses showed up today at my house yet
& I'm totally okay with that!
When my parents first told me that I had to wait till I was 16 to date...
I thought It would be so hard to have to wait.
I always have had the mindset that the day after I turned 16 my relationship status would change & my life would be radically different forever...
Apparently not!
I have quoted this before in my post called "The Season of waiting" &
I absolutely still love this quote!!
“She was far too busy living out a passionate romance with Jesus Christ to be pining after an earthly prince.” –Leslie Ludy
I need to get this plastered all over my bedroom walls, Because I often lose sight that I am in a serious relationship with the King of kings...
& sometimes I can become discouraged,frustrated, & unhappy because I don't have that special significant other.
(Like mostly everyone else)
Some days I am happy & I love being "single" & then some days my heart aches so badly to be like everyone else "in a relationship."
On those days that I am feeling lonely & unlike the rest ...
I sit down in a comfy spot turn on some worship music & write a letter to my future prince,
(as strange as that sounds)
I store them away in a safe keeping place so that one day I can give that special someone all my love letters!
I have already given my heart to this "Prince"
I will one day meet.
I pray for him daily & I am devoted to him already in love, & in my purity.
I look forward to one day meeting him! But if the time is not now I will enjoy the season of life I am in to the fullest!
Today before I end this little
Birthday post,
I want to extend my gratefulness to my parents for the
"16 dating rule"...without that rule I could have easily messed up my life by rushing into things that I was unsure about & totally not ready for.
Though I may have been a little upset about having this rule in the beginning,
I now have a totally different perspective of how to look at it
& I am SO grateful for it :)
Now off to enjoy my completely realistic 16th birthday...
I wouldn't have it any other way!!
Thanks for dropping by!
Happy new year!!
Until next time,
Kerrington
Happy belated birthday sweet Kerrington!! My advice to you on your 16th birthday, is to love Jesus with all your heart, focus your eyes on Him {as it seems you are! yay!} above all else, and then when you find someone special, carefully guard your alone time with him before you are married. You were made to love, made to share life intimately with a man on this earth, and I want to encourage you to keep your heart and body diligently, because the day you marry your husband you want to have no regrets. It will be tempting to give your heart away before it is time, but know the temptation will come and be on guard for it. Your heart is precious {I can tell!} and your Savior will lead you! I promise. You are His beautiful daughter and love, keep your eyes set on Him and you will do very well! :D I know He has good plans for you! :D
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for taking time to read my blog!
DeleteYou are such an inspiration to me :)
May the lord bless you & keep you!!
- Kerrington
Coming from the perspective of a leader working with youth, this was so refreshing and encouraging to read! We actually spent over a year trying to convey this message to our youth through a study with Leslie Ludy's book, "Authentic Beauty", and sadly, far too few wanted to embrace this opinion. You are a real example of what it looks like to have a heart set apart for Christ. Thank you for encouraging me to keep planting the seeds, believing that God will bring the harvest.
ReplyDeleteHey thanks so much for the words of encouragement!!
DeleteYou are so kind!! & I will be praying & believing with you for the harvest! :)
Be blessed sweet friend!
-Kerrington